Are you friendless? I mean, lacking a really true friend.
If you are, chances are you’re a man. And it’s for sure you’re not alone in these days of computers, cell phones, Ipods and numerous other distractions. Of course, none of those things are wrong in and of themselves. But, when we become obsessed with them, they can cut us off from face to face contact with other people. In big cities where long commutes are the norm, people’s schedules get so cramped that they aren’t interested in meeting new people. They just want to ‘chill out’ when they get home.
Somehow, using technology is easier; you just sit down at your computer and join the online chat session or something of that sort. So face to face meetings or discussions with other people decrease. Remember when neighbors sat out on their porches at night and got to know their neighbors? But when air conditioning came along, we saw porches become less and less important. Television also kept us glued to the TV screen. Thus, we didn’t get out to know our neighbors.
And then, our mobile society adds to the problem. It’s not unusual for people to move to different places in the country - sometimes many times during their lifetime. So any friends they had are left behind, and they’re challenged to find new ones in their new city. Remember the New Testament story of Jesus asking a Samaritan woman at the well for a drink of water? What a beautiful picture of human interaction. Jesus went out of his way to approach the woman with great humility. He sincerely showed interest in her. And the consequence, her life was transformed. But what if the woman at the well had been caught up in something else and didn’t make time for Jesus? What kind of rich experiences are we missing out on by not being or having a friend?
This is Carl Ramsey and that’s Another View of the News.
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